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MC's avatar

Reading this I cannot help but think about the difference emotions make. With effort, one can absolutely become adept at cutting off random people who one doesn't respect, dealing swiftly with unpleasant strangers, ignoring judgemental nonsense, maintaining indifference, it's an essential life skill. What is harder, perhaps impossible, is being able to do so with people with whom there is an emotional connection, however irrational that may be. Which is why we have such words as hamstrung, crippled, frozen, helpless, incapacitated. Its ghastly and idiotic, but for neurotypicals it's real and powerful and yeah, it sucks. We can only keep trying our best.

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Sheez's avatar

I could use some work on my TAT, I tend to be a bit too forgiving.

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