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bilzebug's avatar

You're not the boss of me.

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Kymical Fire's avatar

Well. I have abusive parents. My mother can't compute any logic anymore after nearly 40 years of poor sleep next to my father, who is emotionally enslaved to the feminine through his mother wound. So, she's full on narcissist because she just literally can't perceive my emotional body and healthy boundaries—treats those like attacks on her. And y father, is her flying monkey. So Christmas really sucked, because every year she throws a victim tantrum because she overwhelms herself with baking and cooking traditions... basically, withe her own obsessive anxieties. Don't get me wrong, I'm grateful for how they support me, but I'm the scapegoat for all their unresolved wounds, which I'm supposed to just bear like a obedient pet. And they don't understand these concepts in the slightest.

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