No, Diddy Is Still Not A Psychopath
But there' four excruciating minutes left, so let's do this...
Hey, I don’t want to be here either, but y’all wanted me to do a reaction to whatever this woman’s name is, videos, so here we all are. Guess what? Last week’s mile long post wasn’t even half of this torture fest, so yay us.
Where were we? Oh yes, Diddy apparently made Biggy go to a party, and he was shot after. That somehow makes Combs a psychopath because… reasons. Granted. I could come up with some plausible reasons why that might be the case. Like, there have been rumors for years that Diddy and Biggy didn’t get on, and that people have believed for decades that Diddy was responsible for him getting shot. There are plenty of substantiating rumors for this argument to be made, though it wouldn’t be remotely indicative of psychopathy. However, that’s not her argument. She has no argument. So, let’s go back to this video, and get through it.
I have to say audacity because he had the audacity to go on television and when people asked him do you feel responsible for this, he gaslight them, triangulated them, and told them no you know I do feel a little bit bad about it because I was telling him to go to London, but he decided to stay in LA and that's when they were beefing with the whole West Side he was there to allegedly be killed, and then he couldn't handle that heat could he Diddy so he decided to blame the victim.
What is this language? That’s rhetorical. I know what this language is, “…he gaslight them triangulated them”. This is language from the websites like that write about psychopathy, NPD, sociopathy, etc. as this broad stroke, interchangeable, thing, and that those with that thing all behave in this one way. Also, she presented no evidence that this is gaslighting or triangulation (which I believe requires a third party to be involved), so I have no idea what she’s one about.
…he likes to do that he's done that a lot of times actually. He seemed to have a predilection for certain victims and that seemed to be African American men. This included Usher, 50 Cent, Biggie, Tupac, Justin Bieber, who potentially, he saw as a black person at the time, I don't know. Psychopaths have this tendency to put themselves above everybody else, and he went to special lengths to do this.
This paragraph is a mess. There is no flow of ideas. It’s just allegations, and just a weird comment on Diddy seeing Bieber as a black guy for some reason, and then moves right into this idea that psychopaths think they’re better than anyone. To do this, you would first have to care about other people, which is fundamentally incongruent with psychopathy. She would know this if she knew literally anything about psychopathy, but I am guessing that she read Hare and Stout’s books while salivating about how much they’re about her.
If you need to feel like you’re better than everyone, you are narcissistic, not psychopathic. These things are not the same.
Puffy was involved in a shooting in a club, and he was there with one of the artists signed to his label named, Shine, As a close friend to Shine, you would think that Diddy would do something to protect him. Instead, when there were charges put against him and Shine, he hired himself the best lawyer money can buy, the best lawyer that OJ could buy, Johnny Cochran. But what did he do for his friend? Nothing. He got a public defender, and he also sent the most damning witness to testify against Shine. This was his close friend who was signed to his label. If you can't see how calculated manipulative and ruthless he was, you're not listening.
Was this a d*ck move? Yes, yes it was. Is it predictable? Absof*ckinglutely. From a mile away, it was predictable that this guy was going to take the fall. Is that evidence of psychopathy? No. It’s evidence of an entitled douche bag that knew he could get away with being such. Nothing so far has suggested that Diddy is anything more than a self-absorbed neurotypical. They’re everywhere. Nothing about this is unusual or remotely interesting when it comes to entitlement.
If you think that Diddy stopped with just men, you're wrong. He stated some of the most attractive women known to mankind including Cassie. Cassie, if you're watching, I love you and I wouldn't do this to you. Every woman who had the misfortune of being part of Diddy's romantic life ended up dead, stalked, harassed, and trafficked and finally, that he was just too interested in men for their relationship to continue
Okay, can we talk about this self-insert here? That is so telling. She not only is saying that psychopaths and sociopaths think the same way, when we do not. We don’t have remotely similar wiring to be able to do so, but she is also saying that the way that we think is:
Every woman who had the misfortune of being part of Diddy's romantic life ended up dead, stalked, harassed, and trafficked and finally, that he was just too interested in men for their relationship to continue
After stating, “If you're watching, I love you and I wouldn't do this to you”.
So… what you’re literally saying is that you would do this to people, not Cassie, because you “love” her, and she would be exempt from these supposed standards of behavior by psychopaths, and therefore by extension sociopaths, because they are the very same thing. Cassie would be protected, but other people? Maybe not.
This is all a fantasy for her. She wants you to believe that she is so dangerous that she would do these things, but she won’t do it to you. She’s dangerous, but she’ll protect the right person from that danger. It’s this self-indulgent idea that she is someone to be feared, but she would use her danger for good… for Cassie, whoever the hell she is. But remember, this YouTuber is as dangerous as Diddy is accused of.
Nope. That’s just someone that wants to think of herself in terms of someone that she is admiring. This is not because she and Diddy are boon companions because he’s such a psychopath, and she’s such a sociopath. Not at all. She wants to be viewed in the same light as him, because she finds the power that he has to be admirable and desirable. Therefore, what he did was also admirable, and she is totally capable of it, but you, her dear watcher, you’re safe from her predations. This is pretty much the same thing as the teenager that says he would be a serial killer because he’s just so dangerous, but he chooses not to be, because you know, he holds himself back. It’s exhausting, edgelord crap.
If an actual psychopath does something crappy, I’m not over here fogging up the windows going, “Yeah, that’s what we’re like. We’re so dangerous. I’m like… so scary that people need to lock their doors miles away from me. I may not be able to control the evil that seeps from me. I just… love it so much…
When I hear this kind of thing, all that comes to mind is that pretend psychopathy/sociopathy is the edgelord’s handkerchief in this scene:
Let’s just take it down a notch.
Recently his homes got raided because it's alleged that he did sex traffic numerous women. So did his son allegedly, but there was a lot of criminal versatility in Diddy's career Not only was he overly aggressive and violent getting into punch-ups with literally like anyone he could find and and then beating up Wale, because he did a record with Cassie and he couldn't deal with anybody else touching Cassie so he allegedly grabbed him by the legs and hung him out the window.
Let’s go through the new, supposed obvious signs of psychopathy that she listed in this last bit.
He’s jealous. Psychopaths can’t feel jealousy, so… no. Jealousy is oxytocin based, and psychopaths don’t process oxytocin. It isn’t something we even comprehend.
He’s violent. Psychopaths do not bother with violence unless it is unavoidable, and it accomplishes something. We certainly wouldn’t have any reason to be violent for no reason. Getting into fights indicates an anger or rage problem, which again, psychopaths cannot have. Anger is but a brief microsecond. It is never strong enough to direct actions, and it doesn’t stick around past a flash of it. Rage is totally out of our capability. This is a deep and abiding emotion, and that is absolutely contrary to how our brains are wired.
He sex-trafficked women. And? Does she have any idea the vast network of human trafficking that is going on, on a global scale, right now? Especially children? Vast is an understatement. There are more slaves in the world right now, than any other time in history. This isn’t something that is so unusual or rare that it is the domain of psychopaths. Rather, this is a neurotypical issue, one that I think should be addressed, but while there may be psychopaths involved, we in no way make up near enough of the population to be remotely significant in its existence. Human trafficking is everywhere. Diddy doing it means literally nothing.
He’s overly aggressive. Again, and? Lots of people are, and most aren’t psychopaths or sociopaths.
He is a very audacious character, this one and, let me just say, the DSM couldn't just define him because he seems to be the personification of everything that is bad about antisocial personality disorder
If you are using the DSM as your definition for ASPD, there is nothing in it that would be considered, “good”. He is not the personification of “everything bad about antisocial personality disorder”. Rather, he seems to have a lot of the traits, which brings me to my ever reoccurring point that was so well demonstrated by her video. ASPD is a garbage diagnosis that can be applied to anyone alive, so long as they behave to criteria. The reason is never looked at, and most people with ASPD are neurotypical, and most psychopaths are not antisocial in the slightest. The cause of the antisocial behavior matters, but is disregarded. In Diddy’s case, pending further information, I would hazard a guess at it being entitlement, as I said earlier.
Nothing harms the world more than an entitled piece of garbage that doesn’t like the word, no.
I'm not a therapist so don't quote me on this because can't diagnose anybody
And that’s where the video should have started and ended. And yet, here we are.
but come on you have to see how compelling this shit is.
No, it wasn’t at all.
It just adds up.
Not even a little. She made no case whatsoever for anything other than she has no idea what she’s talking about. She uses language that she clearly doesn’t understand, and she draws conclusions about things from misinformation and presents them as fact.
As someone who does think this way but doesn't have the uh horrible personality needed to carry these out…
Again, there’s that self-insert about how she’s just like him, but her personality is somehow exempt from this horrible behavior.
…I would say this guy would definitely classify as what we think he is a psychopath.
Whooo is weeee? Because people that know what psychopathy is, and sociopathy, and the difference between them, and how ASPD has nothing to do with any of this, weeee find your argument utterly lacking, pedestrian, and without merit. But you know, go on with your bad self in your fantasy land. Weee will stay out here, leaving behind the myths and nonsense, having a conversation about these things, logically, rationally, and without a deep desire to have people consider us dangerous.
So I want to know you thoughts do you agree with me…
Not even in the slightest.
or are we going to beef about this?
Why would I have beef with someone that doesn’t know what they’re talking about? That’s like being mad at a toddler because they don’t understand how accounting works. You simply understand that they have no idea what they’re talking about, pat them on the head, and get on with the rest of your day as an adult.
Stay tuned though…
No, thank you.
I will keep you updated as the case moves forward
If I care to glean any more information about this case, which is unlikely, I will look to someone that does research and has a grasp of the topic they are covering.
That’t it. We’re done. For those of you that wanted me to cover her videos, there, I did it. I will do the article I mentioned about her claiming NPD in the past if you want, but I think I am done with the video portion of my patience.
I recently watched a YouTube video that debunked the Heath Ledger version of the Joker as being a psychopath. The video pointed out that there are 3 traits that all definitions agree on in psychopaths. No empathy, exploitative behavior and egocentrism. What I noticed is that the video being reviewed didn’t even address those traits.
Psychopath is just fun to say I guess. Oddly enough to all appearances Diddy seemed to hit all three but really most all neurotypical people will be inclined to ignore empathy, exploit others and be self centered if there are no consequences
Thanks, Athena. Laughed a lot with you expressing irony and impatience.