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Paul Terence's avatar

The original article should have been titled "Red Flags of a Malignant Narcissist" instead of "Red Flags of a Psychopath" with all references to psychopath being replaced with malignant narcissist. It still wouldn't be that accurate, as you rightly point out that blaming the other person for one's unrealistic and naive relationship expectations is at the heart of the issue.

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Janette Franklin's avatar

I laughed so hard at this article. Thank you, your responses are very well written. My ex is a narc and the honest truth is if I wasn't so full of myself, and if I didn't "NEED" the attention, I wouldnt have lapped it up. I had a lot of inner work ans growing up to do. How shocking lol the world doesn't revolve around me?!?! And Oh My Gosh, other people have feelings too? Not just me?!?! Yeah. I had a lot of growing up to do. I very much lived in a fantasy that someone was going to fix my life for me and that it would be perfect. This thought makes me barrel roll laughing now. More people need that glass of Grow Up cold water. Thank you, this might hurt someone's feelings but it's a truth they need to hear.

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