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You take on spirituality. I'm fascinated by neuroatypical spirituality.

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All right, that sounds interesting to write about. Might be sort of all over the place as different things occur to me, but we shall see, shan't we?

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Thank you. :)

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the Tao? Meditation? Peace

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Meditation is a weird one for me, because it doesn't work at all. I can write about that however.

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For me also. I like quiet and peaceful places, however.

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I will guess that I will get a lot of very interesting information from people that do meditate and have good results from it.

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How you acted in school would be in interesting story to read. Were you polite with teachers, and do your homework? Do you have childhood friends?

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A problem child for certain, but I am happy to get into more detail about it in a post.

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I would love to hear about other places in the world that doesnt involve that media induced panic or drama! What about unusual jobs or talents? I'm a firm believer that everyone has their place in the world and everyone has skills that they can use for "good" or just simply because its neat. Have you met any cool people happily doing their own thing and just being awesome without realizing they are awesome? Im bored to death of the negative sides of everything, but im not asking for "all good vibes" but realness. I think you know what I mean. If i can say it better later I will lol

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Not all good vibes, but I can certainly write about some, and will. I have a wide variety of things that I like to learn about, and some of it is strange to a lot of people, but there are a lot of interesting stories that I can share.

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I'd love to hear some advice from you on how to read body language.

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I can do that

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I think that it would be fun to see you write something that doesn't necessarily have to do with psychopathy. I do enjoy the psychopathy content, but I also generally enjoy your writing because it is done well.

Maybe you could tell a story about something that you've been through, or write about another topic that interests you just to mix it up some. I don't have anything in specific, so I'd be interested to see what you come up with.

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I am always happy to have a break from psychopathy. I have a lot of strange things that I come across that I think would make for interesting posts. If people want to read them, I am happy to write them.

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I like your writings, I am interested to read some of your fiction, if Substack is fit for posting it.

As for regular format posts, I would like to hear some interesting stories, yours or just those that you know. Food recipes and hacks are also very welcome.

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I like all of those ideas

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I’d also love to hear more about manipulation tips and tactics. Perhaps advice on how to navigate the workforce.

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I am going to start a list so I can address everything one at a time.

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I would like to hear about how a psychopath learns to survive in an NT world. There are no role models for psychopaths and many are still trying to understand why they are different and what they need to do to get by. How did you slowly learn how to play the game? What kinds of experiences made you realize that you had to adjust your behavior? What should parents teach their (suspected) psychopathic child? I'm looking for pragmatic advice based on your personal experiences.

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I would like to know how an NT learns to survive being with a psychopath? NT's behavior requires adjustment as well?

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Yes, quite true, it does. I will collaborate with my Significant Other and others that are close with me and get their opinions prior to writing that one.

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Thank you.

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Sounds like a good idea. I certainly can address all of that.

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I would like to hear about your experience of music and beauty in general. Thanks for the question.

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Sure, I can definitely do that. I had an interesting comment on Quora that made clear distinctions that are there for most neurotypicals, but not for me. It was an interesting realization.

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I'd like to hear about information that you've studied pretty well and feel that you have a interesting point of view or advice on regardless if it has to do with psychopathy or not. Also I also really appreciated that article you wrote on trust and not being manipulated. As I deal with social anxiety and used to trust a small circle of people too much that article reinforced what I am learning as I try to grow. Thank you for your perspective and your bluntness, it's very refreshing.

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I can do that. There are a lot of things that are sort of unusual that I know about. I am happy to share some of the things that I came across in my pursuit of not being bored.

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I would like to hear more about how you decided you wanted a partner and what criteria you had, or if your connection happened more spontaneously. Is your partner a very level-headed NT? How do you accommodate each other's differing needs? I would also like to hear about the strange spaces you've been in.

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I can definitely do that. It doesn't occur to me that our relationship is unusual in the strictest sense, but we do get asked about it a fair amount, and that's when people have no idea about the dynamics between us. So that should be interesting to explore in a more fluid format.

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Yes, it's not that I thought the relationship itself would seem unusual. Buy you have explained how content you are with your own company. You enjoy your friends, but when they aren't around, you don't miss them. So I that information makes me curious why it's worth your time and energy to live with a partner. I can only assume that their companionship is stimulating on many different levels and valuable in other ways as well.

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Yes, this would of interest.

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I'm all for "totally off the wall". Or more stuff about neurotypicals getting stuck in their emotions, maybe. Hard to guess what could turn out to be a good topic, since forming good questions often leads to immediate answers. And I don't know what I don't know.

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Getting stuck in emotions is definitely something I can talk about, as it is a constant problem I run into. Doing off the wall things I can definitely do. I might put a quick one up in a moment.

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I would like to hear about the things you pick up talking with people like their needs, fears, dreams, insecurities and process it and use it. Is it something conscious ou unconscious.

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It's intentional. I like information, and all information is useful. Usually it just takes time to find how it is useful, but almost always it comes in handy.

I suppose an example I could give would be with the young men that were abuse survivors. If one of them said that their primary abuser was a certain sex, I would know that they are likely not going to respond to that sex as a therapist. They would do better with the opposite of sex of their abuser.

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It’d be cool to read about how you work or maybe even non-identifiable stories about work.

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Thank you, Ty. I will add it to my list.

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What about your opinion and experience with paranormal stuff?

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I can write about that. I know enough to know that I have no idea what's out there, and have had some weird experiences.

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After reading one of the recent Quora posts, I want to add that posting and reacting to really bad edgey kid messaged would be a fun one. Only problem is it might encourage more.

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Indeed, that is a real problem.

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