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TS6157's avatar

I found it interesting how the matter of the choice of restaurant is settled. There’s no compromise in that scenario, no time delay on gratification. The key issue is the food desired, not the location. So it’s resolved by the takeaway. Both get what they want when they want it.

It still requires thought to come up with the solution. I assume then that both see the meeting as desirable, otherwise one or both would be equally happy to walk away from the meeting.

Im new to your writing, so the willingness to find a solution that accommodates the needs of both surprised me I think.

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I think that NT's engage in a ton of projection when they speculate about what a psychopath would do. They see someone with no capacity for several emotions that they believe to be central to existence as a human and they then let us all know how they'd act if they could get away with it.

It's not called the "Fear of God" by them but it comes down to the same thing. It's funny but basically pursuing self interest can lead to a psychopath being a much better person than many who believe themselves to 'good people'

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